So, you got yourself a date. That one girl that you’ve been dreaming about has finally agreed to go out with you. That’s pretty good. Your parents are probably very proud. You’re worried though because it’s your first time and you’re not sure about what to do and you don’t want to screw everything up. Relax mate. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to please a girl. And besides, in this post, I will take you by the hand. I will present to you premium tips on how to make your first date a success.
Things to Check
Check your phone.
Show a sign of respect to your date by putting your phone on silent mode. Your date wouldn’t be amused if your conversation with her is interrupted by texts and calls – be it from your friends who are cheering you on or your mom reminding you to be home at 10.
Check your wallet.
Women say that it’s no longer necessary for guys to pay for a date. However, if you really really want the girl, you better come prepared. Make sure that you have enough money to cover for the date.
Check yourself in the mirror.
Brush your teeth, take a bath, trim your nails, and shave if you don’t look good with a mustache and a beard. Look at yourself in the mirror and check if you’re clean and neat to look at. It’s a big turn off for girls if a guy has bad hygiene.
Check your laptop.
Delete your internet history of all those dirty and kinky stuff. If your wallpaper shows a sexy girl, change it right away to something more appropriate. You’re doing this because there may be a possibility that she might go back to your place to watch Netflix and chill.
Check on her.
Call her to confirm if the date is on. Check if the venue you’ve chosen is okay. Double check if she’s alright with the time.
Check your pockets.
Have a pack of condoms ready. Yep, everything is possible so always be prepared. It would be so awkward if you’ll have to go to the nearest convenience store to buy a pack of Cs in the heat of the moment.
Things to Avoid on a First Date
Don’t be nervous.
A girl wants a man with confidence. Even if you’re nervous, don’t show it. Be manly. Be assertive. Be sure of what you’re saying. Don’t stutter. Don’t tremble. Don’t shit your pants. (Pro tip: You can drink one bottle of beer before you meet to remove first date jitters. A quick workout also does the trick.)
Don’t be cheap.
Don’t be a cheap date. It’s important to make a good first impression. So if you’re going to dine out, don’t take her to the crappiest restaurant in town. If ever things get heated up, don’t take her to the sleaziest motel. It’s okay to be cheap once in a while but never on a first date.
If you’ve already had a previous relationship, don’t talk about your ex
. It’s better to shut up than dwell on your past. Don’t mention that you’ve had 20 other girls before her. That’s just rude.
Don’t pretend you’re something you’re not.
Don’t expect too much. Don’t expect to get laid after the date. This would lead to disappointments almost every time. Just savor the moment at hand.
What to wear on a first date
Oh, and make sure to watch this video about having a first date at a restaurant. It’s hilarious.